Finding the right words when someone is grieving is one of the hardest things we do. Here are thoughtful approaches.
Keep It Simple
"I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts." Authenticity matters more than poetry.
Use Their Name
"I will always remember [Name]'s warmth and kindness" shows you remember them as a person.
Offer Specific Support
"I'd like to bring dinner Thursday" is better than "let me know if you need anything."
What to Avoid
Avoid "they're in a better place" or "everything happens for a reason." Simply being present is more powerful than any explanation.