Sending flowers to a funeral is deeply respectful, but the etiquette can feel overwhelming. Here's a gentle guide.

Types of Arrangements

Standing sprays are displayed on easels near the casket. Basket arrangements are versatile and appropriate from anyone.

Appropriate Flowers

White lilies symbolize the restored innocence of the soul. White roses represent reverence. Soft pastels are always appropriate.

When to Send

To the funeral home before the service, or to the family's home afterward. Sending flowers days later shows ongoing support.

When Flowers May Not Be Appropriate

Some religious traditions prefer donations. Check the obituary when in doubt.